Sex is great, but you maybe have some hidden kinks that you would like to start exploring? Do you still not know how should you ask your partner for BDSM play? 

Maybe you’re still not sure where to start – and that is okay. We were all newbies at some point of our sex life. 

In this post we will try to show you your first steps when it comes to BDSM. And if you and your partner like it, you can always step it up a notch. But it is important that you’re both consent and you enjoy it. It requires a conversation with both your wishes and interests.

Before we start, I want to reassure you that BDSM is a normal activity that plenty of people around you do. It is not a twisted activity, it is completely normal. 

For 11 BDSM starter tips click here.